You are so brave.

“Your raw expression and sharing of what you are going through is truly touching people.  I honestly do not know how you are so brave.  A true inspiration to so many!  I hope someday that you are able to see that minimal light in all this darkness.  Still thinking about you so much!”

Your strength is incredible.

“Hi Jess.  Thinking of you very often.  I wanted to share with you that my husband and I started going through IVF last spring…and we are finally expecting another baby boy.  I want you to know that every night when I ice up for my progesterone shots, I think of you.  When I am vomiting so intensely its difficult to get through, I think of you.  I want you to know that I never for one second take what I have for granted because of you.  Your strength is incredible.”

I think about Lincoln almost every day

“Hi Jess.  I want you to know that I think about Lincoln almost every day, he reminds me and inspires me to make the most of each moment with my little guys.  I hope this message is ok to send.  I was just reflecting on how much of an impact your little man has likely made in this world.  You are always in my prayers.”